How to Know Which Puppy to Buy at the Pet Store

In order to know which puppy to buy at the pet store, you must first be aware of the two factors that contribute to a dog’s temperament long-term. These factors are their breed and the environmental experiences they have during their first 7 weeks. Puppies begin to socialize from the moment they’re born, and every […]

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In order to know which puppy to buy at the pet store, you must first be aware of the two factors that contribute to a dog’s temperament long-term. These factors are their breed and the environmental experiences they have during their first 7 weeks.

Puppies begin to socialize from the moment they’re born, and every interaction they have helps to shape the personality and behavioral tendencies that they will carry with them for the rest of their lives. How their mother tends to them, how they get along with their siblings, how their breeders handle them, and how they socialize with others will all influence the kind of dog they will become.  

You’ve done your research and know which breed you want, but do you know the behavioral and personality traits to look for that will ensure you bring home the right puppy for you?

The good news is that the pet store may have already conducted formal temperament tests on their puppies, so be sure to ask them. They might be able to tell you a lot about the particular puppy you’re hoping to take home!

Whether the pet store can tell you about their puppies’ distinctive personality traits or not, this article will provide you with direction. We will lay out the characteristics and attitudes to look for in a puppy when you’re at the pet store so that you choose the right furry companion. 

There are 4 behavioral traits to assess. Let’s get started.


Confidence is an important characteristic for puppies and people alike! Think about someone you might know who lacks confidence. Do you find that they’re a bit tiring to be around? Do you have to exert energy to support them emotionally and reassure them time and again? Do you find it difficult to trust them because their lack of confidence gives you the impression that they’re unsure of themselves and doubt their abilities?

Puppies that lack confidence could grow up to become adult dogs who lack confidence, which could make routine trips to the dog park and walks around the block a major production. Some puppies will grow out of their shyness, though, so we’re not saying you should avoid a puppy just because he’s a little cautious. But you will want to take his confidence factor into consideration.

How can you test a puppy to see how confident he is? 

A fully confident puppy will barrel right over to you. There is one loophole to watch out for, however. If the puppy follows you around so tightly that you can’t even really conduct these tests, don’t assume that’s a sign he’s confident. Following you without exception moreso indicates he’s higher on the “dependent” scale.

Bear in mind, too, that a timid puppy isn’t necessarily “worse.” In fact, you might enjoy the personality of a shy puppy who tends to proceed with caution. Interestingly, dogs need confident owners and trainers, too. When you’re training your puppy, never second guess yourself. Be confident and consistent. It’s a two-way street!


When it comes to the independent to dependent spectrum, you want the puppy to fall in the middle. Both ends of the extreme will pose greater demands on you when it comes to training and housebreaking, as well as your long-term relationship with your dog. A purely independent puppy might be especially willful and resist obedience training. He might not care whether you come or go. On the other hand, a dependent puppy could have severe anxiety issues every time you leave him alone. 

The first little test you can try with the puppy is this: 

You can further test the puppy’s independent nature by trying the following willfulness tests:


Dogs are pack animals. They not only love hierarchy, they need it. A dog that does not understand his position within the pack, i.e. your household and family, may suffer from behavioral or anxiety issues in the same way that a child who has to parent themself may take on too much responsibility, grow anxious, and destructively act out. The puppies at the pet store have already worked out where each of them fits into the pack, which is good news for you. They know who the alphas and betas are, and we have a simple test to help you determine who’s who.

Before we lay the test out, we would like to stress that being dominant isn’t better than being submissive, nor vice versa. For example, if you’re looking for a guard dog, you’ll want the dog to be a dominant alpha, because he will then quickly make those executive decisions when it comes to protecting the “pack” family. He will know to act in the best interest of the family as opposed to first seeking out your approval. 

In other words, an alpha dog will attack the intruder right away. A beta dog might bark, run to your bedroom, and wake you up. Both strategies will serve to protect your family, but as you can see, they are different.  

A dominant alpha puppy will actually experience a degree of “stress” when another puppy or person is dominating him. This stress will motivate him to assert his dominance. 

Here is how you can conduct a dominance test:


You might be surprised to learn that a puppy’s willingness to retrieve directly correlates to his willingness to be trained, “work with you,” and obey your orders. This could be the reason why the most popular family dogs are Golden Retrievers and Labrador Retrievers! These breeds live for retrieving the objects you throw! And on the whole, they aim to please, which makes them the easiest dogs to train. 

The trainability test you can conduct is very simple:

If the puppy does not go after the ball, or worse, goes after the ball but does not bring it to you, then watch out. He could be so independent-minded that he may not heed your instructions during the training and housebreaking process.   

In conclusion, just because a puppy isn’t the most confident and independent, for example, doesn’t mean he won’t be perfect for you! As you select your furry friend at the pet store, bear your own personality traits in mind  and pick out a puppy that will complement your nature.

The only exception to this rule is to be cautious of puppies that show unprovoked aggression towards you or other puppies. It’s still possible to train puppies who have aggressive inclinations, but it will require firm, persistent work. It’s important to be honest with yourself whether or not you have the energy to put in the effort. These puppies could need professional rehabilitation, which is a tall order for someone who’s just looking for a cuddly friend and exercise buddy.

On the other end of the spectrum, if a puppy exhibits extreme avoidance to the extent that they ignore you and other humans, this signifies that the puppy will need a great deal of coaxing and encouragement. You will need to be patient with them long-term and accept the possibility that their fears may never fully go away.

If you’re interested in learning more about puppy personality types, puppy characteristics, and dog attributes, then check out our article, What Are Your Puppy’s Personality Types? Also, we recommend that you read 8 Things You Need to Know Before Buying a Puppy.  

Are you ready to find a puppy? Look no further than the available puppies at Petland Kansas City

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